There's nothing in Yummy that will allow you to this right now - it's basically a reverse of the current FTP Watcher feature. It's been asked for before, it's possible to do, and it's on my To Do list.
Downloading a file while it is still being uploaded will lead to unpredictable results. Don't do that.
One idea is for your Mac external users to use Yummy's FTP Alias feature in conjunction with Growl (
www.growl.info) to do thier uploads to you - the FTP Alias can send you an email notification via the Growl notification system when the upload completes. For PC users, there are lots of FTP clients that can send an email when finished.
Another suggestion would be to use PureFTPd as your FTP server - it uses a hidden temporary file while the upload is in progress and shows the file in the directory list only when it is completed. You could then use Yummy's scheduled Synchronization to run once a minute and download whataver is new.
Hope that helps
